This month Bishop Lee invites us to embrace Lent as a time for
necessary endings so we can truly experience God’s new beginnings.
Those who lived through the 60’s may recognise a song by The Byrds:
Turn! Turn! Turn! For Christians these weeks of Lent provide a hinge
between the seasons of winter & spring & an opportunity for making
necessary endings & creating new beginnings.
In his book ‘Necessary Endings’, the theologian Henry Cloud refers to
the tasks that a farmer needs to do during the winter season – when
everything is quiet. He includes auditing the accounts, preparing
machinery & fields, reviewing progress of the past year and planning for
the next season. By contrast, the spring is a time for action, buying
seed, enabling resources, preparing the soil, sowing, protecting
seedlings against pests, and nurturing a vision of the harvest to come.
These are separate seasons with distinct tasks.
Few of us are now engaged in farming but the images still run deep &
have a resonance. We recognise different seasons in our own life, our
communities & in our work places. Sometimes we feel like the seasons
have been extended, or blurred together; life has become confused and
lost its pattern.
Lent is an opportunity for regaining a perspective and a godly rhythm
& grip – on God, & through his grace, on ourselves. To do this what I
want to commend is that you reflect on your life & discipleship with the
images of winter & spring - & the tasks of the farmer. Consider first
what needs to end or be finished. Before we can make new beginnings
there is almost always an ending that is required. You can do this
collectively as a church community or on your own.
Dr Cloud thinks most of us are not great at endings – especially if
painful or difficult. We lack the courage to make an ending we know is
for the best. We excuse ourselves or those we care for; we fool
ourselves with false hope; we put off what needs to be done. To help you
gather strength to make changes, try imagining the future in 12 months
if you continue down the same track, doing & saying the same things as
you always have done. Imagine how you will feel, how life will be.
Drawing on the hurt that brings can provide energy to make an ending.
Most of us need support to make endings that are difficult. Who can
you get alongside to remind you of why you need to end something? Who
can keep you to your decisions? Space limits me from saying much about
spring and new beginnings. But that seems appropriate. It is only when
we have made the endings of winter that we are ready to enter the season
of new beginnings. We have to follow the pattern. Follow the steps of
Jesus may you know that power which strengthened him to make the most
seismic of endings and beginnings.
+ Lee